i get what dorkus is saying...you want someone who is genuinely nice...deep down a good guy....but when the time calls, you want him to have the ability to be aggressive. you don't want some completely passive guy. i had it articulately put in my mind when i started this blog but my mind got sidetracked by...well nothing. i had a brainfart. :P it's kind of like for guys....you don't want to marry a whore...you want to marry a nice respectable girl who is a good wife, etc etc.....but behind closed doors you want your wife to be a whore. haha. you get it now?? :D

I'M HOME!

listening to: john mayer-covered in the rain(live)