dorkus i'm a little confused, your statement in a way seems to contradict itself, i guess I can understand what you are saying but at the same time, your second paragraph seems to retract from what you had said in the first. So you don't want so you don't want a cocky, obnoxious person unless it can benefit you in some way? so what would make that different from if they were like that all the time? Do you just not want them to act that way to you, but then still be able to show off how manly they are too everyone else out there? just curious....moving on....have you ever had something on your mind that bugs you a lot, but at the same time you probably aren't supposed to know, like you overheard something? Man I hate that, cause you aren't sure, but at the same time you can't ask anyone, cause you are supposed to be in the dark on the issue. So annoying, it makes your mind think, and thinking is never good, hence I try to prevent it with major doses of alcohol........with ty the other one and your old asian lady parking attendant mac....haha....i think they all miss you.