on the subject of the "fetish," i think it's harder for the house and myself to understand the other point of view. it seems like a decent amount in here has dated outside their race, so it's okay for us. i know some people that see the asian/white dating and say oh it's a fetish. i just think, man you're dumb, but i wonder why they think the way they do. maybe it's cause there are guys that do date because of the stereotype, and the people that think that way have been exposed to it or their social background disagrees with what they perceive as to be bad. also with the people i know, if one of our friends is dating outside their race it's not considered a fetish. so in order to judge a person you should have to know them right, but that does not hold true, how lame is that?

i know about the whole unspoken rule thing as well, my mom is of the old school. i think it's stupid and i never cared to listen to it, ironically enough, currently i'm with someone of my own race.

dorkus, thanks for the new info of the asian vaginal canal, wow that's news to me. hahaha.