color blind societies do not realistically exist. established.
people should not be penalized for what they think or feel. i'd prefer if we recognize the racial differences and not necessary assume guy or girl dates said person due to their race. if an individual is confined to those standards, it is a sad thing. but i only have control over my actions and thoughts. not theirs.
truth is a subjective word. true friends are honest with each other. but tact and consideration of sensitivities and feelings are equally important.
optimism or giving people the benefit of the doubt does not necessarily equate to ignorance or self enforced oblivion.