man i want to live in gumdrop land with lollipop lane, better yet i want to live in the land of chocolate like homer, where there are chocolate posts, chocolate rivers, chocolate dogs... hehe, that episode is sweet. anyways, i know that people aren't color blind and that the many perceptions exist, i was just giving a take on what i think. i agree with hedwig, that if you're happy it's all good. if other people have trouble accepting that, that's their own problem, to sound kind of selfish, i belive a person should benefit themselves if it is worth it to them, and not care about what others have to say or think, that is if it does not do any harm to the other party. it's not your fault that you are happy and have what you want.

i have a few manwhore friends myself as well as a few female friends as well, but hey it all goes back to if it makes you happy, to quote rocky balboa, "go for it!"

yeah the truth does hurt, actually i take that back, i don't want to live in gumdrop lollipop land if it is used within that context. "a true friend stabs you in the front" (oscar wilde) i'd rather have that then people talking smack and being fake when in your presence. get it out, get it open, get it over with. peace.