Just my opinions.....
1) i think if a white guy is dating an asian girl, it does not necessarily mean he has a "fetish." however, maybe if all he dates are asian girls, then maybe he does have a fetish. and yes, it could be considered a race thing. you don't know how many old perverted white men check out young asian girls. it's disgusting. and mac, maybe you won't understand bc you're male, but trust me, there are a lot of white guys who want to date asian girls bc of the whole stereotype. plus i heard one time that black guys want to date asian girls because their vaginal canal goes sideways. WHAT???? i don't get it!
2) sorry new wave, you asked a question that will have no right or justifiable answer (about the double standards of girls being sluts). that's just it, you see, it's a double standard fostered by society. there's never going to be an answer to that question. it's just unfair is all.
3) who gives a f*** what you do anyway? do what you want, as long as you're not hurting anyone else.
4) if you think i have a white "fetish" because i have mostly only dated white guys, then so be it. i don't care.

listening to: lisa loeb and elizabeth mitchell - "donguri" - traditional japanese song