ok you know ms. wedding planner has something to say about new wave girl's comment on marriage. true, weddings are final and heavy. you ARE closing another chapter in your life but at the same time, opening the most important chapter. i mean, yeah, childhood, teenage life, college, first jobs are all important, but the part of your life you're going to remember is the one that starts after the marriage. your kids, your job, growing old together, making a life together. ok, now i'm rambling.
and yes, i too have many opinions on who will get hitched first and others who will never make it to the altar :)